12.19.2008

Who the hell am I?

If you've lost who you are, it's really important to think about your likes and dislikes, even if it's something like "I like puppies, I like cake, I like cheese..." because it's a start. It seems like something really simple. I know some people are probably reading this going "How do you not know what you like??" Well, it's easy to lose touch with one's self and forget. I remember being in the hospital and a nurse asked me "Well, what do you like to do?" I had no fucking clue. What did I like to do? "Uhmm... drugs?" In reality that's all I did, and I didn't really like it anymore, but, well, I didn't really do much else. "Okay, well, let's make a list, then. Think of what you like, and what you don't."
"Like what?"
"Anything that you like or don't like."
"*laugh* Okay."

Likes:
  • Looking at snow.
  • Swimming
  • Music
  • Drawing
  • Writing
  • Reading
  • Guys :-*
Dislikes:
  • Cold.
  • Shoveling snow.
  • Anything with snow other than looking at it.
  • The color yellow
Get the idea? If you're feeling like you've lost touch with who you are, I suggest taking this simple step. The list doesn't have to be long at all. It can be a few things at first, and just add things as you think of them, even if it takes you a month to 'complete' (it'll never really be complete people change all the time) it, at least you'll have an idea of who you are, and what you like. :)

1 comment:

  1. Hello E.J.,

    Thank You for visiting my page again. The movie you refered to 'Fur' is my favorite movie of all. I am glad this reminds you of it. Your words as always did not disappoint.

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